Dear Shrochis दाइ र भाउजु
Life has been wonderful journey coming from high hill terrain lands of Nepal to this land of Europe where every hard works count.
The beauty of my life has been added with meeting you people around you who have been helpful since our first meet. There is a saying that “everything that happens is mostly for god reason” and I believe in it as it really implied in my life from the experience of two days meeting being extended to more than a month’s stay at Oxford.
Guidance on academic writings; the crucial and daily bread and butter of university life which I had almost no idea was the greatest learning of during my stay. Probing to focus on writing, comments, guidance, suggestions and recommendation that you provided me has been helping me to shape up in my academic writing which is necessity aspect for the whole phase of my life from now.
Meeting people of your circle has been a wonderful opportunity for me. This added a premium benefit to meeting those people from Nepal whom I would not have got to meet without prior a month or more than that appointment.
Thank you for being so much concerned about me on my food and logistics every single day. I guess I might have changed your cooking habits since I came as you were more worried about me for everyday meals.
Finally, thank you Shrochis dai for creating such an environment where I could learn from a brother having PhD from Oxford; which will be once in a life time opportunity and vauju from German Education system.
On new year- first of January I went to Nar Bahadur Rana dais home. Who is currently retired British Army residing at Swindon-UK. Though he is almost 25-30 years senior than me i call him as dai due to a bond which we call it as SEBS- society of ex Budhanilkantha School students.
we met online for the first time 4 years back in 2012, when i started poultry farming project for the chepang community. He was the first one to send 100 pounds to encourage my project to move ahead. we had never met before and he trusted me with the SEBSers relations. He had a dream or aspiration to serve the community but as he is residing in Uk he cannot directly involve in these works so he supports indirectly through financial supports. This was the main motive of sending that money for my poultry farming project for chepang community.
Today we met after 4 years in UK where i came to UK as a postgraduate student. We both of us were surprised to see each other thinking back of how we got attached and also how facebook connected us all the way from Nepal to UK. I went to him home on NEW YEAR 2017, had dinner and met his family, We talked everything about our joys and sarrows. Shared the schools experiences. Compared the schooling in his period and during my period.
There existed another emotional attachment between us made by Rabilal Praja( my thulba his senior Budhanilkantha school friend). I made him to contact him on Rabilal Prajas mobile phone, They had a long emotional atttachment of few years stay at Budhanilkantha School.
Thank you NArbahadur Dai.
Photo: NarBahadur Rana Dai , Biswash Chepang and Vauju.